Yeah, these sound like great ideas. I choke without Botox, so I find myself doing thse sorts of things frequently. Trying to talk, or do anyhting else, while eating I've found to be a VERY BAD IDEA!! Any time I get distracted while trying to swallow is a guarantee that I'll at least TRY to choke!You are SO RIGHT on the fruits thing!! THEY ARE THE WORST!!!! It's like you have no control wahtsoever with where the juice goes, or when.
Others have suggested adding thickeners to food/drink in order to help.